Marriage is looks beautiful and many people want it.
But one common thing in most marriages is the tendency to fall away from romantic ways and treat each other like furniture in the house.
After getting used to each other, couples often don’t see the need to do the little things that used to make them glow – compliments, romantic dates, kissing, cuddling etc.
Sometimes, they even keep a strict time table for sex and are almost robotic in bed.
Men who want to keep their women happy can actually achieve it without having to getting some sex action.
Here you go…
- Start every morning with a kiss even when you are quarrelling
- Write her a letter/poem with your most romantic thoughts once in a while
- Cook for her (even if you’re terrible in the kitchen) and set up an intimate candlelight dinner, with wine and music
- Make her favourite song your ringtone
- Remember to buy her favourite snack on your way back whenever you go out
- Invite her family over to show your wife her people are important to you too
- Randomly buy her flowers on ordinary days
- Appreciate her hobbies will give her a feeling of pride and gladden her heart.
- Drop by her her office at lunchtime and then take her out for a quick meal
- If you are wrong, be quick to say sorry and show that you mean it
- Take her to see romantic movies as a surprise gift
- Hold her close when you are in public to show you are proud of her
- Surprise her with something beautiful and expensive without her asking
- Go out for informal dates together like a picnic at the park or a swim at the beach
- Bring back romance by recreating your first date…go back to the place you first asked her out and do it again
- Give her a back or neck massage after work
- Look good when you go with her because a well-groomed man always makes women proud.
- View old photos together with your wife relive warm memories
- Let your wife’s best pals visit once in a while because your attempt to bond with her friends will please her immensely
- Always find opportunities to compliment you wife on her beauty points to let her know she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for you
- Be suggestive when giving her advice rather than final and forceful
- Wake her up with a cup of coffee (tea) once in a while
- Cuddle her at every opportunity because women love the feeling of physical intimacy
- Cook the meal and do morning chores on Saturday so that she can sleep for longer
- Don’t stop treating her like a lady – opening doors, being courteous – a man with perfect manners always scores
- Accompany her to family events and look happy
- Call her just to say you were missing her and just needed to hear her voice
- Write brief love-you notes and hide them in odd places where she will find them
- Talk dirty once in a while and create passion
The focus here is to be generally pleasant and keep your romance level on a high even in the absence of sex.
However, where both lovers are in a blissful relationship zone, sex is almost inevitable.
If sex happens, be sure to be a giver as much as a taker….
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