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STAY ROMANTIC WITHOUT SEX

Marriage is looks beautiful and many people want it.

But one common thing in most marriages is the tendency to fall away from romantic ways and treat each other like furniture in the house.

After getting used to each other, couples often don’t see the need to do the little things that used to make them glow – compliments, romantic dates, kissing, cuddling etc.

Sometimes, they even keep a strict time table for sex and are almost robotic in bed.

Men who want to keep their women happy can actually achieve it without having to getting some sex action.

Here you go…

1. Start every morning with a kiss even when you are quarrelling
2. Write her a letter/poem with your most romantic thoughts once in a while
3. Cook for her (even if you’re terrible in the kitchen) and set up an intimate candlelight dinner, with wine and music
4. Make her favourite song your ringtone
5. Remember to buy her favourite snack on your way back whenever you go out
6. Invite her family over to show your wife her people are important to you too
7. Randomly buy her flowers on ordinary days
8. Appreciate her hobbies will give her a feeling of pride and gladden her heart.
9. Drop by her her office at lunchtime and then take her out for a quick meal
10. If you are wrong, be quick to say sorry and show that you mean it
11. Take her to see romantic movies as a surprise gift
12. Hold her close when you are in public to show you are proud of her
13. Surprise her with something beautiful and expensive without her asking
14. Go out for informal dates together like a picnic at the park or a swim at the beach
15. Bring back romance by recreating your first date…go back to the place you first asked her out and do it again
16. Give her a back or neck massage after work
17. Look good when you go with her because a well-groomed man always makes women proud.
18. View old photos together with your wife relive warm memories
19. Let your wife’s best pals visit once in a while because your attempt to bond with her friends will please her immensely
20. Always find opportunities to compliment you wife on her beauty points to let her know she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for you
21. Be suggestive when giving her advice rather than final and forceful
22. Wake her up with a cup of coffee (tea) once in a while
23. Cuddle her at every opportunity because women love the feeling of physical intimacy
24. Cook the meal and do morning chores on Saturday so that she can sleep for longer
25. Don’t stop treating her like a lady – opening doors, being courteous – a man with perfect manners always scores
26. Accompany her to family events and look happy
27. Call her just to say you were missing her and just needed to hear her voice
28. Write brief love-you notes and hide them in odd places where she will find them
29. Talk dirty once in a while and create passion

The focus here is to be generally pleasant and keep your romance level on a high even in the absence of sex.

However, where both lovers are in a blissful relationship zone, sex is almost inevitable.

If sex happens, be sure to be a giver as much as a taker….

7 WAYS TO DATE YOURSELF BEFORE DATING OTHERS

You have to learn to love yourself first before loving anyone else. The key to having any successful relationship lies with you. So before jumping into that next relationship why don't you date yourself first.

You can be happy without having to rely on anyone, this makes you stronger even in a relationship because you won't always need your partner by your side.

Holly Riordan of All Women Stalk lists a few ways you can date yourself before entering into another relationship:

1. Go out alone: There are certain places that people consider "date spots," where they wouldn't dare to go alone. However, there's no reason for single people to avoid the places that couples frequent. You're allowed to go to the movie theater alone or to a fancy restaurant alone. Sure, some #people might judge you, but they aren't as secure as you are. You don't need a partner when you could have a grand old #time all by yourself.
2. Dress up: Most #people dress up to go out on dates. However, you don't have to wait for a #guy to ask you out to wear something nice. You can buy a sexy dress, do your #makeup, and then just lounge around the house. Of course, you should take advantage of the photo opportunities. If you're going to go though all the trouble of making yourself up, you might as well snap a few pictures.
3. Buy yourself treats: Flowers and chocolates aren't reserved for #women in relationships. You can buy yourself a #beautiful vase of flowers to decorate your house with. You can buy buckets of chocolate to eat when you're bored. Don't be afraid to treat yourself.
4. Leave yourself notes: It's sweet for a boyfriend to leave his #partner notes around the house, but you can create your very own notes. Write yourself a letter to #read whenever you're upset. Jot down compliments and stick them to your mirror. Put an inspirational background on your phone. Do whatever works.
5. Make a fancy meal: If you were in a #relationship, you wouldn't go out to eat every single night. Once in a while, you'd make some fancy food. That's why you should create an elaborate meal for yourself, complete with candles and wine. Then you can set a bath and enjoy your quiet night.
6. Buy a pet: Just because you're single, it doesn't mean that you have to live alone. You can find companionship with your very own puppy or kitty! There's no better way to learn self-love. When your pet scampers up to you after a long day and sleeps with you throughout the night, you'll feel like the most lovable person in the #world. It'll also help you learn responsibility and how to care for another living being, which can help when you eventually enter a romantic #relationship.
7. Learn what makes you happy: The point of dating yourself is to learn what makes you happy. Watch new genres of movies to see what you like. Visit new places to see what interests you. Try to expand your knowledge of the #world in order to expand your knowledge of yourself.

TRUE OR TRUE

beatrice.okon@facebook.com A new study claims regular orgasms can reduce the risk of prostate cancer in men by 20%. And those who ejaculate 21 times a month or more cut their risk by 22%. Hmmm. Read the report below..

Men who ejaculate more regularly throughout their lives lower their risk of the disease. The researchers, from Harvard Medical School, did not explain why orgasms could lower prostate cancer risk. However it has previously been theorised that regular orgasms may flush out cancer-causing chemicals in the prostate.

Another theory is that if sperm is regularly cleaned out to allow new cells to develop, it helps stop the build-up of old cells that might be more likely to turn cancerous.

The prostate is a small satsuma-sized gland located between a man's penis and his bladder, whose main function is to produce a thick white fluid that is mixed with the sperm produced by the testicles, to create semen.

The new study is the largest to date on the frequency of ejaculation and and prostate cancer.

The researchers found that men in the 40-49 age bracket who ejaculate 21 or more times a month reduced their risk of prostate cancer by 22 per cent. This was compared to men who ejaculate four to seven times a month.

While the researchers said they were unclear as to why ejaculation lowers the chances of prostate cancer, they called the results ‘particularly encouraging.’ 

The study followed almost 32,000 healthy men for 18 years, 3,839 of whom later were diagnosed with prostate cancer.

Men were asked about their average monthly frequency of ejaculation between the ages of 20 to 29, 40 to 49, and in 1991, the year prior to the questionnaire.

They found that the more frequently a man ejaculated throughout his life, the lower his risk of prostate cancer at all three of these points in time.

This was the case even when they adjusted their results to take factors such as diet, lifestyle and a history of prostate cancer screening into account.

Dr Jennifer Rider, of Harvard Medical School and Brigham and Women’s Hospital, said the results are ‘particularly encouraging’ but should be interpreted with caution.

She said: ‘While these data are the most compelling to date on the potential benefit of ejaculation on prostate cancer development, they are observational data and should be interpreted somewhat cautiously.

‘At the same time, given the lack of modifiable risk factors for prostate cancer, the results of this study are particularly encouraging.’

Source: UK Daily Mail

SELF DEFINITION

I do not define myself by how many roadblocks have appeared in my path. I define myself by the courage I’ve found to forge new roads. I do not define myself by how many disappointments I’ve faced. I define myself by the forgiveness and the faith I have found to begin again. I do not define myself by how long a relationship lasted. I define myself by how much I have loved, and been willing to love again. I do not define myself by how many times I have been knocked down. I define myself by how many times I have struggled to my feet. I am not my pain. I am not my past. I am that which has emerged from the fire.

HOW MANY NIGERIAN CELEBRITIES WILL DO THIS?

Rihanna Plays Bridesmaid in Hawaii for Her Assistant

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Rihanna, some bridesmaids, and a blunt (Instagram)

It takes a very good friend for Rihanna to sacrifice 4/20, the very highest of holy days for our IDGAF Queen. So it's good for Jennifer Rosales that Rihanna is not just her boss, but her BFF. Rihanna threw on a lilac Badgley Mischka gown and played bridesmaid for her assistant Jennifer Rosales's April 20 wedding in Hawaii.

But don't think for a second that means she wasn't celebrating the holiday as well.

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Married... With Style (Instagram)

Rih posted several snaps from the wedding festivities, including a couple shots of herself and Melissa Forde, who is also on Rihanna's team, in pink bridesmaids' robes with Rosales in her own special white, bridal one. The musician has a blunt clenched between her lips, purple sunglasses, a bucket hat, and the general aura of someone having a damn good time.

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Rihanna (AKM-GSI)

After the ceremony, Rihannashared a photo of the new Mr. and Mrs., calling the event, "Perfection."

Rosales has been working with the singer since Good Girl Gone Bad, which is basically the album that splits B.C. Rihanna from A.D. Rihanna.

Rosales — as well as Forde — travels everywhere with Rihanna; the two frequently pop up in pictures on Rihanna's Instagram. This trip to Hawaii, however, was all about Rosales, who was marrying her fiancé, Aaron Davis.

Earlier in the day, Rihanna shared a video tribute to Rosales and Davis. "I can't believe this day is finally upon us!!!!!" she wrote in the caption. "I'm so happy and so proud to see my big sis [Rosales] and my big bro [Davis] become one today!!! A wedding is a celebration of a marriage!!! That's what we gon do!!! Celebrate the marriage that we've been lucky enough to witness grow and evolve for all these years!!!! #420 will never be the same again!!! God bless you both!!!"